Circumstances
Any offense of the person is his misunderstanding or a certain sort an illness.
The person inside is fine.
Circumstances to which it gets, and close people create preconditions for this or that behavior.
If in a family believe in it, that it can cope with any problems, and are ready to give to it love and support, the child will aspire to correspond to expectations of relatives and to behave so that not to disgrace the honor families.
In cases when in a family adults try to make out in the child bad and to condemn him, does not remain in the place world, where it could go to get support and the help.
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